Pending Request
I requested some friends to pray for some other friends. Many are undergoing trials and testings these days. I have my share of struggles and I realize how affected I become with little irritants if I do not put God first in my life.
I just learned a valuable lesson in life lately. Some people say things they do not really mean when they are cornered. They lie, not because they want to deceive you, but because they are not prepared to tell you the truth yet. We react differently in difficult situations. Others have unusual coping mechanisms to get out of uncomfortable situations.
I am still confused and disoriented from my travel and emotional strain brought about by a recent break up, or rather, misunderstanding. There's no break up since there was no formal request for permanency in the relationship in the first place.
I like to think that these growing pains are necessary for me to get to know him better. Years apart have made me wary of his reaction or lack of it. I mostly base my assumptions on previous encounters which really do not amount to much anyway.
Like most relationships, no communication is probably better than miscommunication... this is no exception. Also, long distance love affairs are really bent on disaster. Relationships thrive on constant TLC, without which, new relationships emerge and alliances are forged, to the detriment of existing ones. But that's just the way it is, right? We allow other relationships to grow and let go of other ones that no longer give us satisfaction or worth.
I still hope for the best. Perhaps some more patience and several buckets of understanding and tears..
I just learned a valuable lesson in life lately. Some people say things they do not really mean when they are cornered. They lie, not because they want to deceive you, but because they are not prepared to tell you the truth yet. We react differently in difficult situations. Others have unusual coping mechanisms to get out of uncomfortable situations.
I am still confused and disoriented from my travel and emotional strain brought about by a recent break up, or rather, misunderstanding. There's no break up since there was no formal request for permanency in the relationship in the first place.
I like to think that these growing pains are necessary for me to get to know him better. Years apart have made me wary of his reaction or lack of it. I mostly base my assumptions on previous encounters which really do not amount to much anyway.
Like most relationships, no communication is probably better than miscommunication... this is no exception. Also, long distance love affairs are really bent on disaster. Relationships thrive on constant TLC, without which, new relationships emerge and alliances are forged, to the detriment of existing ones. But that's just the way it is, right? We allow other relationships to grow and let go of other ones that no longer give us satisfaction or worth.
I still hope for the best. Perhaps some more patience and several buckets of understanding and tears..
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